• Relationships

    Learning how to People Again

    One of the hardest things I face is having to “people” with others. I think the fear of not being understood and others thinking I’m weird is what holds me back so the easiest thing for me to do is limit my time with them. The problem with that is you miss out on having some great interactions at times so I’ve decided I want to learn how to “people” again. Let’s face it, humans ARE social creatures and we have been since our species existed. I know many of us introverts say we’d love to live in a cabin in the woods, far from anyone and just be at…

  • Relationships

    INFJ/HSP Sisters

    One of the worst things for an INFJ is not knowing someone else who can really understand you. It can leave you feeling isolated, misunderstood and frustrated. If I remember correctly, it’s said that HSPs are 15-20% of the population, but the figure for INFJs is much lower at 1-2% and not all INFJs are HSPs. I’m extremely lucky that my sister is also both of these as well. I imagine that’s not too common but I’m so grateful that I have someone close who gets me so well. I will be honest though, it’s not always a bed of roses and I’ll get to that shortly. As far back…